Did you ever go to a restaurant and order a meal only to be surprised when the server brought you something that wasn’t what you thought you ordered? It takes a very special skill to ask for what you want. It requires a detailed description of the (want) picture in our head and then communicating that information to another person. Sometimes we just don’t give enough information of that picture and we end up getting something totally different from what we envisioned.
It takes practice to describe the pictures of what we want that are in our mind. It also takes specific questions to describe what it is we want to someone else.
But, by doing so we end up getting what we want. We are always trying to satisfy those pictures in our minds of what we believe is what we want.
Let me help you identify your wants and teach you ways to get what you want.